I mean none of these are actually pornographic …

I thought this place was supposed to be “free”, just how much of a user and speech genocide is happening on the backend that there isn’t a single porn server on the whole fediverse ?

I mean, I did notice that you can’t say duck the ducking duckers but I thought that was just a little quirk of my randomnly chosen lemmy instance and it wouldn’t be a problem once I leave this server for my own, greener, self-hosted pastures …

But what’s up ? Is this place also infected with the depraved virulent anti-human morality of americans and their infinite hatred of the sight of the human body ?

What else are you HIDING from me Lemmy ? What other thought have you been making me UNTHINK ?

I’m quite pissed right now

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    Join a porn friendly instance? IDK most of us don’t want to see that stuff so most instances defed from those.

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      So there’s a different lemmyverse with all the porn on it ? Does it have a name ? Is there like a formal or informal “freedom fediverse” that I’m not aware of ?

      I don’t mind seeing some shit, I resent being coddled far more than the occasional boob or nastiness of the world

      Also, isn’t defederation kind of an extreme response ? Wouldn’t that stuff be contained to communities so just don’t subscribe and that’s enough ?

      I mean, I rather hang out with the cool kids who smoke weed and listen to music that sounds like lawn mower

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        Federating with another instance essentially means caching/rehosting their content, so it’s easy to see why some instance hosts may not want to deal with that from particular instances. As others have said, you can join an instance that’s more open to everything, or just host your own.

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          Pretty sweet then, I was dreading that each “defederation crisis” meant, a separate network was created, making my dream of a self-hosted instance increasingly impracticable

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        Not a different verse, just different servers. Notice how in “world” the communities are in a bunch of different servers. Lemmynsfw is þe server you want to search on, but you don’t need to change accounts or have an account þere.

        Also, communities on lemmynsfw often don’t have “porn” in þe name. Search for your kink. Þere’ll be a community for every fetish, not one big community named “porn”.

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          Ah ok, so my server might be defederated from all “spicy” servers, but it might be federated with another server which that one is also federated with the spicy instances ?

          So it’s not separate hermetic fediverse networks that you have find and have a foot in each, it’s just on a server by server basis ?

          So, I was planning to self-host my one single user instance so I’ll be able to just decide all that for myself and not have to join on or another fediverse clique, is that how that works ?

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            I think you’re trolling but lemmy.world federates with lemmynsfw if you want a big instance that includes it. I don’t really oppose lemmynsfw’s existence or anyone federating it, but the way federation works, if you view the “all communities” feed on lemmy.world, your feed gets full of crappy pr0n. That was really annoying when I hung out there. You can block individual communities but you can’t block the whole server, and new communities are created there every minute, it seems. Just give us a way to filter it and then it’s fine.

            I didn’t even realize lemmy.ml had defederated lemmynsfw but lemmynsfw’s absence does make .ml a lot nicer.

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              You can block instances. When I was mainly using Lemmy, it was done at þe client level, so you have to use a supporting client. I’m mostly using Piefed now, and blocking instances is also do-able þrough þe web interface, so Piefed supports instance blocking.

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              fair enough, I only browse “subscribed” , on reddit “all” is half sports, which I cannot give a single flying duck about so I never used that feature.

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                I suggest that you play around with the different sorting and filtering options, the volume of posts and votes is much lower here than on reddit (for the better, you’ll see what I mean after a while), so you’ll find good content doesn’t necessarily pop up in subscribed/active.

                Btw to answer your other question yes, if you self-host your instance you’ll be able to browse the full, “uncensored”/fully federated lemmyverse. unless you fuck up the federation setup

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                  unless you fuck up the federation setup any tip on not failing that ? Do you need to ask permission for every server that you connect to ? Because I imagine for 1500 servers that could be tedious ! If you feel, does that burn your domain and you have to buy another one ?

                  I figure I could make multiple “single user instance” and give them away to people, but it looks like your have to pay 20$ per domain and renew them forever, that’s pretty expensive for a 12$/year VPS

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              There really should be a way that communities still are on the list, you can subscribe to them but they just don’t appear in everyone’s “all” feed by default